Episode 47: When Friends Disappear (The Loneliness of Grief)
“My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?”
Matthew 27:46 and Psalm 22:1
Summary:
In this episode of “It's Not For Nothing”, Elizabeth Leon, Brittany Primeaux, and Anna Gowasack discuss the profound loneliness that often accompanies grief, particularly the loss of a child. They explore the impact of isolation on identity, the importance of presence in relationships, and the courage it takes to connect with others during such difficult times. The conversation emphasizes the need for community and understanding, while also acknowledging the changes in friendships that can occur as a result of grief. The hosts encourage listeners to seek out new connections and to embrace the growth that can come from navigating these challenging experiences together.
Takeaways:
Grief can lead to feelings of isolation and loneliness.
Many friends may fade away during times of grief.
It's important to have a support system that understands your loss.
Presence is more important than words in supporting someone who is grieving.
Grief can change our identity and how we relate to others.
It's okay to let go of friendships that no longer serve you.
New friendships can emerge from shared experiences of grief.
Grief is a lifelong journey that evolves over time.
Community support is vital for healing after loss.
We must have the courage to seek out connections in our grief.
Discussion Questions:
How have you experienced loneliness in grief? How have friends surprised or disappointed you?
In what ways are you still getting to know the “new you” in grief? How comfortable are you sharing this new version of yourself with others?
How has grief opened doors for new friendships?
