Find Suicide Loss Support with “Remember”
The first ever Catholic support group model for those grieving the loss of a loved one to suicide.
Grief after suicide loss is complex, isolating, and profoundly painful. The "Remember” program offers a compassionate path forward—providing faith-centered support, healing, and community for those carrying the weight of loss.
Through guided reflections, heartfelt discussions, and the strength of shared faith, this 12-week program helps participants navigate their sorrow while embracing hope.
You are not alone. Healing is possible.
Fall 2026 CohortThe fall 2026 cohort, led by Sr. Kathryn Maney and Tom Korta, will meet on Mondays, from September 21, 2026, through Monday, December 14, 2026. Participants will gather weekly in a small-group setting rooted in Catholic faith, trauma-informed care, and the deep understanding that suicide loss carries a unique and often isolating grief.
If you are carrying suicide loss and longing for a place where your story can be held with reverence and care, "Remember" was created for you.
To request participation in this “Remember” cohort, fill out the interest form here.
There will be no session on Monday before Thanksgiving (November 23).
Spring 2026 Cohort with Debbie O'Connor and Gay Abuan-Summers
Remember is a guided, peer-based journey for families and individuals grieving the death of a loved one to suicide. This cohort offers a prayerful, safe, and confidential space to be held in compassion, to name the pain that often feels unspeakable, and to gently encounter hope again—without pressure, platitudes, or timelines.
The Spring 2026 cohort, led by Debbie O’Connor and Gay Abuan-Summers, will meet virtually from Sunday, February 22, 2026, through Sunday, May 17, 2026. Participants will gather weekly in a small-group setting rooted in Catholic faith, trauma-informed care, and the deep understanding that suicide loss carries a unique and often isolating grief.
If you are carrying suicide loss and longing for a place where your story can be held with reverence and care, Remember was created for you.
To request participation on this “Remember” cohort, fill out the interest form here. There will be no sessions on Easter (April 5th).
Spring 2026 Cohort with Sr. Kathryn Maney and Tom Korta
Remember: A Sacred Space for Those Carrying Suicide Loss
Spring 2026 Cohort
Remember is a guided, peer-based journey for families and individuals grieving the death of a loved one to suicide. This cohort offers a prayerful, safe, and confidential space to be held in compassion, to name the pain that often feels unspeakable, and to gently encounter hope again—without pressure, platitudes, or timelines.
The Spring 2026 cohort, led by Sr. Kathryn Maney and Tom Korta, will walk together from Monday, February 16, 2026, through Monday, May 11, 2026. Participants will gather weekly in a small-group setting rooted in Catholic faith, trauma-informed care, and the deep understanding that suicide loss carries a unique and often isolating grief.
If you are carrying suicide loss and longing for a place where your story can be held with reverence and care, Remember was created for you.
To request participation on this “Remember” cohort, fill out the interest form here. Sessions will run from 7:00-8:30 PM CST on Monday evenings, beginning February 16th and ending May 11th. There will be no sessions on Easter Monday (April 6th).
Fall 2025 Cohort with Debbie O’Connor and Gay Abuan-Summers
To request participation on this “Remember” cohort, fill out the registration form here. Sessions will run from 7:00-8:30 PM CST on Monday evenings, beginning September 29th and ending December 22nd. For more information, please contact Gay Abuan-Summers (gabuansummers@gmail.com) or Debbie O’Connor (debioconnor1@gmail.com).
There will be no session on October 13th.
Fall 2025 Cohort with Sr. Kathryn Maney and Tom Korta
To request participation on this “Remember” cohort, fill out the interest form here. Sessions will run from 7:15-8:45 PM CST on Sunday evenings, beginning September 21st and ending December 21st. There will be no sessions on October 5th and November 30th.
FAQs
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To join a “Remember” cohort, you will need to fill out the interest form here. “Remember” leads participants to explore their story of loss deeply, in communion with their peers and the Lord. While this work can be profoundly healing, it is also very intense, and is not suited to every grieving person’s needs. All “Remember” group facilitators are specially trained to be able to discern if “Remember” is the right support option for you.
If a “Remember” leader determines that a virtual group would not be suited to your needs at this time, they will help connect you with alternative grief support that is more beneficial for your unique situation.
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A group facilitator will send you the link to purchase your participant journal once you are signed up for a group.
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All “Remember” group facilitators are required to:
1) Complete the “Remember” program as participants. If a leader currently leads suicide survivor groups, holds a professional degree, or is trauma certified, Red Bird Ministries will consider exceptions on a case-by-case basis. Please contact Sr. Kathryn for consideration.
2) Obtain a letter of recommendation from their pastor.
3) Complete the “Remember” leader training course, consisting of about 20 hours of self-paced content and a follow-up call with the RBM “Remember” Staff Team.
If you are interested in leading a “Remember” group, you may fill out the interest form here.
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Red Bird Ministries has compiled a resource page for those who have lost loved ones to suicide. Browse book recommendations, articles, and videos that speak to the heart of suicide-related grief.