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What Can Be Normal
Is a gentle, faith-filled resource created for grieving parents navigating life after the death of a child. Written in a poetic and compassionate style, this free download names many of the thoughts, emotions, physical reactions, and spiritual struggles that can accompany child loss, helping parents recognize that they are not alone in what they are experiencing.
This resource offers language for the parts of grief that can be difficult to explain—the tears behind the smile, the exhaustion, the replaying of memories, the longing to hear your child’s name, the struggle to pray, and the tension of holding both sorrow and hope. It also reminds grieving parents that healing does not mean forgetting or leaving their child behind.
Rooted in a Catholic understanding of the human person, grief, and the hope of the Resurrection, this resource gently affirms that faith and sorrow can coexist, and that seeking additional support is a sign of wisdom, not weakness.
Perfect for bereaved parents, parish grief ministries, clergy, counselors, family members, and anyone accompanying a parent after the death of a child. Some pastors will read this reflection on the Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows.
Single Parish License & Copyright
© 2026 Red Bird Ministries, Inc. All rights reserved.
This purchase grants one individual parish a nonexclusive, nontransferable license to print and use this resource for pastoral care and ministry within that parish.
The purchasing parish may print copies of this resource as needed for families directly served by that parish and for approved parish leaders or volunteers providing bereavement support.
This license does not permit the digital file to be copied, emailed, uploaded, posted online, shared, reproduced, or distributed to another parish, mission, school, ministry site, or organization, including those within the same diocese. The resource may not be resold, altered, republished, or incorporated into another program without written permission from Red Bird Ministries.
Each parish must obtain its own license. Dioceses wishing to provide this resource across multiple parishes must obtain a separate diocesan license from Red Bird Ministries.
Purchase of this resource grants permission for use only; all copyrights and ownership remain with Red Bird Ministries, Inc.
Is a gentle, faith-filled resource created for grieving parents navigating life after the death of a child. Written in a poetic and compassionate style, this free download names many of the thoughts, emotions, physical reactions, and spiritual struggles that can accompany child loss, helping parents recognize that they are not alone in what they are experiencing.
This resource offers language for the parts of grief that can be difficult to explain—the tears behind the smile, the exhaustion, the replaying of memories, the longing to hear your child’s name, the struggle to pray, and the tension of holding both sorrow and hope. It also reminds grieving parents that healing does not mean forgetting or leaving their child behind.
Rooted in a Catholic understanding of the human person, grief, and the hope of the Resurrection, this resource gently affirms that faith and sorrow can coexist, and that seeking additional support is a sign of wisdom, not weakness.
Perfect for bereaved parents, parish grief ministries, clergy, counselors, family members, and anyone accompanying a parent after the death of a child. Some pastors will read this reflection on the Feast of Our Lady of Sorrows.
Single Parish License & Copyright
© 2026 Red Bird Ministries, Inc. All rights reserved.
This purchase grants one individual parish a nonexclusive, nontransferable license to print and use this resource for pastoral care and ministry within that parish.
The purchasing parish may print copies of this resource as needed for families directly served by that parish and for approved parish leaders or volunteers providing bereavement support.
This license does not permit the digital file to be copied, emailed, uploaded, posted online, shared, reproduced, or distributed to another parish, mission, school, ministry site, or organization, including those within the same diocese. The resource may not be resold, altered, republished, or incorporated into another program without written permission from Red Bird Ministries.
Each parish must obtain its own license. Dioceses wishing to provide this resource across multiple parishes must obtain a separate diocesan license from Red Bird Ministries.
Purchase of this resource grants permission for use only; all copyrights and ownership remain with Red Bird Ministries, Inc.